Some INTJs struggle with meeting someone. In this video, I’ll offer a few quick tips for the INTJ looking to date someone.
• You’ve got to be around people to meet people. A girl or guy isn’t going to mysterious pop up in your underground lair. You have to plant yourself in some social situation on at least an occasional basis so that you can meet people. It can be school, a job, church, chess club, comic con, something. That will take effort because most INTJs view clubs and things like that to be a waste of time.
• You could also try to connect with someone online, but that’s always “iffy.”
• Do a grooming tune-up. Make sure you have a decent haircut. Dress nicely. Bathe. Make yourself marketable.
• Remember that people are attracted to people for different reasons. For example, if you’re an INTJ guy, there are lots of women who will be attracted to you for reasons other than looks. A lot of women like a man that exudes a humble confidence. Some women are impressed by success. Some women are impressed by intelligence. Some women just want a man to be faithful and loving to them. Some people want someone who shares their values or interests. Looks aren’t the only thing that matters.
• Once you have someone in mind, you need to open up dialogue with them. If you struggle with small talk, try to establish contact with the person via some written format. Online forum, email, text message, social media. This will enable you to learn more about the person and provide opportunities for flirtation or to invite them to dinner or movie.
• Remember that a lot of people may be unsure if you like them as an INTJ. We have the death stare. We don’t show our emotions to people we don’t know well. So a person may have no clue you’re even interested in them. You may have to be direct with them.
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