If you do like a women you are dating to, and you want more than a few dating nights with her, just STOP being nervous and excited around her. If she accepted to date you more than once you do have a lot of chances to be the best man for her. All you have to do is to start believing it yourself, and she will realize it too (if she hasn’t already).
Let's suppose you don’t know each other very well. The fun of dating is learning about each other, peeling away the layers and discovering all those wonderful habits and personality. Don’t be too intense when you two are spending time together. It could be fun and remember that fun should be the main state when dating her.
If you have “I need a soul mate” stamped on your forehead, you’ll scare her away. But if instead of that you have the attitude “I am the best for you, and I’m not in a hurry because I know you are not going anyway” you will look confident, calm, funny and finally more attractive.
Attractive women are looking for something different: a challenge, a spark, an unpredictable, funny guy like you to take her imagination away.
I've heard many women talking about how they would like to meet a serious, loving man to build a life with, most of them are not in their best days when are telling this. But I never heard a woman in love saying that she is attracted to her lover because he is a serious and careful, attentive man.
Would you like to know how a woman in love is describing her sweetheart? I’ll tell you how: “I really don’t know why I am so in love with him. He’s different! He’s the best!” Nothing too concrete here, you’ll say. You are right, but this is the true: attraction has no logic.
I don’t tell you to get a shower before your date (a recommendation that make me smile and that you can find in most dating articles tips for men on net :)) but dress smart casual, don’t overdo it.
Just become a challenge for her and maybe some day she will whisper to your ear “YOU are the best man for me!”
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