Avoiding The Dangers Associated With Internet Dating - 0146

Internet dating offers individuals, couples and groups an opportunity to meet online with the possibility of developing a romantic or sexual relationship. Most Internet dating services provide unmoderated matchmaking, allowing users to make their own connections via e-mail or telephone. These services allow users to browse potential dates using criteria such as age, gender and location. Almost all internet dating sites allow their members to upload photos of themselves which can be viewed by other members. 

Some sites also offer podcasts, online chat and message boards. Most internet dating sites allow free registration as part of their trial service in order to attract new users. Afterward the trial period is up, a monthly fee is charged.

Many internet dating sites are broad-based, meaning their members are from a variety of backgrounds who are looking for different types of relationships. 

However, there are also some sites which are more specific, basing membership on more narrow criteria like common interests, location or relationship desired. Online dating has both positive and negative aspects that people should be aware of before joining any internet dating service. Internet dating allows members to meet more people, users can easily browse other members profiles, members can communicate anonymously and with reduced fear of social awkwardness, geography is no problem since members can meet people from distant locations, most dating sites are either free or moderately priced, and members can chat with each other through e-mail or instant messaging before deciding wheter they want to pursue the relationship in real life.

There are, however, some negative aspects to Internet dating. 

Some members misrepresent themselves, lying about their marital status, age, gender, physical attributes or finances. On most sites, men outnumber women, so female members are bombarded with responses. most of whom are inappropriate choices. Some internet dating sites don’t remove expired profiles, and thereby falsely inflating the number of potential dates on their service. And, despite modern advances, the same dating problems that arise from basic human psychology and behavior still affect Internet dating.

How to avoid the danger of internet dating. There are some internet dating services that monitor the online behavior of their members, but only to a certain extent. There are also sites that provide second-party regulations in order to keep track of complaints, with moderators banning users who violate the rules of the online dating service

Likewise, online dating members should also take basic safety precautions, withholding their home address and phone numbers – as well as workplace or school information – until they've satisfied themselves that their potential date is trustworthy. Although it's true that it's safer to meet people online than in bars or other similar places, it's still wise to be cautious, as not every person online is telling the truth about themselves.

Each user should remember that they control over the information they share with others. Moreover, they also need to use common sense, just like when dating in the real world – but the key to safety online is in limiting the amount of personal information divulged. Dont forget to visit www.NoMoreSingles.com and www.TeraLovers.com to find the right person for you. Best Wishes...




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Avoid Cyber Stalking-Netiquette For Rejecting Profiles - 0145

Dating services online can be a fun place to meet new people, but because of the anonymity involved with dating online, you run a certain risk that the person you are striking up a conversation with isn't exactly who they say they are. Breaking off an online romance or even simply rejecting a profile emailed through an online dating service can be tricky if you don't do it with some finesse. 

Cyber stalking is defined as unwanted contact or threats via email or instant messaging. Cyber stalkers can be relentless, sending mean and inappropriate emails so many times in one day that you no longer look forward to checking your email. They can also send pornographic material or even viruses disguised as apologies (Which you are more likely to open.) 

Take heart, there are hundreds of online dating sites, from free dating services online to monthly or yearly membership dating sites, so don't give up, just learn the netiquette involved with saying "no" to a profile sent to you via adult dating online.

Online dating tips for saying "no thanks" include: 
• Do not send a reply. It is very bad manners not to open an email, but once you have and would not like to have further contact, just do not reply. In internet language this is a common form of showing no interest, and is considered appropriate. 
• If someone whom you have not replied to keeps sending you emails, use the sender block on your email, that's what it's for. 
• If you are in a chat room and realize that the person you are chatting with probably isn't a good match, tell them so nicely and wish them well. Wait for a reply and kindly sign off. 
• Always be kind and polite, but say nothing that could be construed as an indication that you might change your mind. Cyber stalkers, like "flesh and blood" stalkers, often believe that the other party did something to lead them on, even if you didn't, so leave no margin for error. 

Always report this sort of abuse to the online dating service. A reputable company that provides adult dating online will censure or terminate someone who has reports of harassment. Dont forget to visit www.NoMoreSingles.com and www.TeraLovers.com to find the right person for you. Best Wishes...



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Attracting and Seducing Women: How to Use 'Option Limitation' to Maximise Your Success - 0144

Getting girls to feel an attraction for you - that isn't simply based on your looks, the contents of your wallet or the car you've got parked outside - can be really tricky. 

After all, how are men supposed to know what each girl's looking for without asking? 

If you DID ask, you know your chances would be small, after all, no girl wants a guy approaching her with needy questions - she wants a confident man who somehow seems to know what she's after and can give it to her. 

So how do you do it? 

How do you become the man that effortlessly exudes confidence, dominance and presence, without turning into an arrogant poser or desperate wannabe?

The answer lies in psychology. It's at the heart of all persuasive social situations, and absolutely central to the success of any guy's attempts at attracting and seducing women. Quite simply, by learning the CORRECT psychological rules, principles and tactics, any guy can play and WIN at the game of seduction. For example, let's look at one such psychological technique, that used correctly boosts any guy's chance of getting a girl's number or hooking up with her at a later date by at  least 50%, each and every time he uses it. It's called option limitation and works on the following principle of human nature: 

When someone's presented with only a single choice, often their natural reaction will be to rebel against it and go their own way. However, when given 2 or 3 options, the opposite occurs: they feel their intellectual freedom has been respected and they make their choice from the variety of options they've been presented with. 

You can use this universal psychological principle when picking-up or seducing a woman by carefully constructing how you pose important questions or phrases while talking to her. 

For example, most men think saying: "Can I have your number?" is an okay way to finish a conversation that's gone well with a girl. But a much more powerful and effective way of saying the same thing would be to use option limitation. Something like: "It's been nice to meet you. Shall we swap numbers or maybe grab a bite to eat and a drink tomorrow?" What you're doing is presenting the girl with a choice between good and better - whichever she says yes to, you win. If you only give her one option, as in the first example, she's likely to create her own alternative, which means there's a chance she won't say yes to the option you gave her. When she subconsciously recognises that she's been given a choice between multiple outcomes, she feels her intellectual freedom has been respected and she chooses one of them. 

So, always use option limitation to give the impression there's a variety of options available to the girl - even though each one is fine as far as you're concerned. And to strengthen the effect of option limitation, always try to separate the choices you give the girl with the word "or."  When people hear "or" they automatically recognise that they need to make a choice, and therefore do just that. 

Option limitation is just one example of how, whether they know it or not, men who are successful with women CREATE that success for themselves - not through luck or good fortune.

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Are You Stuck in an Emotional Puzzle? - 0143

I’ve been dating Tina, my girlfriend, for about three years. She’s the only person I’ve shared a long-term relationship with, and I simply love her from the core of my heart. But, the only thing that scares me is that I might be losing interest in her. 

It really breaks my heart even when I imagine that how much it will hurt her to find the fact that I don’t enjoy being with her as much as I did in the initial phase of our relationship. I mean we’ve been dating for so long and I know I just can’t live without her. However, everyday I get up in the morning and I get pissed off with her. She’s a couple of years elder to me and says that her feelings are as strong as it was the very first moment she fell in love with me. I’m really surprised how some can sustain these feelings and spark for such a long time. 

Well, I won’t lie and say that I don’t look at other women and think of how dating them would differ from dating my current girlfriend. on the other side, I can’t break up with her just because I’m tired, we’re so much into each other, we live together and even have a dong. Nah, it wouldn’t be fair to her. Well, I’m trying to find was so that I can revive and rekindle that burning fire and get that feeling flowing again. 

It really hurts me to even imagine what would happen to Tina if I left her, I can’t do cuz I love her to bits. We’re so embedded in each other’s daily routines now that we rely on each other to help us get through the day. But, after dating for so long, at times, I find myself wanting more, wishing I was dating other women and not just anyone, and leading an exciting lifestyle out there in the world. 

Well, I’m expressing myself here just to vent those pent-up feelings and frustration. Well, I guess I need to try and get that fire burning again. Probably, that seems to be the solution. Maybe, it’s time for me to stop taking our relationship and our life together for granted.

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Are You Hooked On Online Dating? - 0142

Do you get in from work and check your inbox to see if you have another admirer? If you do, you could be hooked on online dating. You crave the attention of another single, but deep down you don’t really want to settle down. While you are dating someone offline, are you still checking your inbox when you get home? Are you always on the lookout for someone you feel will be better? These are classic signs of someone who is hooked on online dating.

Have you received a wink off of another single then cancelled an already arranged date? This is generally done by singles that are active with more than one person at a time while dating online. They arrange a date with one single, but deep down they want to go out with the other single. Then they go out on the date and realize it may have been a mistake, and hope the other single is still interested.

Finding a fault with everyone is another sign of addiction. Always looking for someone to be perfect, but that will never happen, you don’t want it to. Remember, you’re addicted, and the next person you date will always be better. You can go back to your inbox, and see who is contacting you. The enjoyment of going to a restaurant with someone different is a turn on for you. That continual initial attraction is far more appealing than a long term relationship ever will be. It’s lust that you’re after, and not love.

Splitting up comes easy to an online dating addict. Reconciliation’s are not even mentioned. What ever the reason was for splitting up, they will be forgotten once back online, and looking for more fish in the sea.

Seeing a relationship through takes character and strength. Any challenges should be talked about, and not just used as an excuse to split up, and move on. These obstacles will build the relationship so it grows and becomes stronger.

The reason for starting online dating is to meet someone. 

Someone you can commit too. Not every relationship is going to work out, wanting it too will give it a much better chance of survival. Dont forget to visit www.NoMoreSingles.com and www.TeraLovers.com to find the right person for you. Best Wishes...





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Are you interested in alternative dating? - 0141

The great thing about dating in this day and age is the versatility and availability of methods to seek out your preferred type of person or activity. Dating can be confusing and frustrating, no matter what your situation. Here are some alternative dating ideas that may appeal to people who don't want to go down the traditional route of seeking a mate. 

Singles bars have been around for a long time, and though they may not appeal to everyone they are ideal because everyone has the same goal in mind.  You're all in the same boat, and it may not be subtle but it certainly is straightforward.  

Speed dating gives you an even shorter time to make an impression. As an alternative dating technique, it can be a lot of fun. You sit opposite someone and each of you have a few minutes to tell the other about yourself. When the bell rings you move on to the next table, start at square one and repeat. If someone bores you to tears, your suffering is short-lived. 

At the end of the evening, you connect with those that tickled your fancy and go from there. If you didn't meet anyone you clicked with, there's no pressure and you can simply go home and attend the next session.  This is becoming a very popular technique for singles, and even those who may mock it and perhaps go 'as a joke' or on a dare end up enjoying themselves.

Dating agencies have become quite popular in recent times. Professional people who lead busy lives like to use them. It's an alternative dating method that is not foolproof but it's somewhat safer, as all clients have gone through a filtering system. Many agencies utilize video dating, whereby the client makes a brief video of themselves and has access to other client videos for perusal. You don't have long to make an impression, so it's best to just be yourself. You want to come across as a genuine person, not a phony.

Many communities have singles groups that embark on fun activities together, and this is is a great alternative dating method.  Events like biking, bowling, curling, movie nights, dancing and comedy clubs are organized by the singles group, and it allows an evenly-distributed group of participants to have a fun and casual night.  With emphasis put on the activity itself instead of making a romantic connection, it takes a lot of pressure off the singles and attractions occur more naturally in this type of setting.

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Attention – Do Not Fail For Dating Scams - 0140

In our days, dating frauds are becoming more common. That's why it is better to know from the beginning how to protect yourself from fraud when using Internet personals and dating agencies. Many people try online dating in order to find a partner, but many of them don't know that online dating has also risks, such as dating scams.

It is considering scam, for example, when a lonely foreign man gets acquired over the Internet with an attractive woman, which will try to get as much money out of the unsuspecting foreigner as possible. Online dating scammers are heartless; they are happy to exploit people's emotions for their own gain. If you get too deeply involved, a dating scam can heart not only your hurt, but your finances too. So, don't be too sincere with the one you are chatting, remember that Internet personals, dating sites allow anyone to join free so you never know who is behind that pretty photo.

The online scams come in many forms and shapes, but the nastiest form is romance scams, when those persons approach you on a dating service. They play with their victim's feelings, send them lovely messages, call them on the phone, and after they built some degree of trust, here come the nasty scam part. They may have many faces: not only they frequently changes names, but they may list themselves by being of different gender, race, age, location.

The major weapon of the romance scammers is photos. If the photos are more attractive, the chances that this could be a scam are bigger. They may get the photos from a modeling site and also photos of innocent people and start using them.

How do they act? First, they approach the victim, by using some attractive photos that are usually uploaded from the Internet. Second, they are ''grooming'' the victim; they establish some lovely correspondence with you, talking about unconditional trust and her honesty. Also, the letters become long, flowery and romantic, and even call the guy '' my love’’, '' my prince'' and so on. She pretends to fall in love with you and talk about her dreams of your first meeting. The next step is to asking for money; after they will come to present you a sad situation, in which they are passing now, will be asking for your help. Such as: they would really like to meet you but do not have enough money or those they have been robbed and beaten and require urgent surgery or treatment for a serious illness. Even if you get in the trap, they will not stop here, and trying to milking the victim for money as much as possible, using different lies as reasons. And finally, take place the disappearing act; start getting out 
little by little, sending only few messages and then disappearing at all.

So, to not pass in such a nasty situation here are some things that you should pay attention:

-when you view a profile look out for things like a sleazy user name;  a normal and sincere woman will not use a sleazy user name

- read what the profiles says, because people milking for others money will say something vague that can fit anyone

-look at the photos, if the photos are too attractive, gorgeous and professional in combination with a vague profile it means that there are troubles, that this is a scam; beautiful people are very selective so they include many requirements   in their profiles. 

How to protect yourself:

- use your common sense and think first that the offer may be a scam

-never send money or give credit card details

-do not open suspicious or unsolicited emails, you've better delete them 

-never reply to a Spam email

-do not agree to transfer money for someone else because money laundering is a criminal offense

The bad part is that guys are more vulnerable to fail for dating scams.  There were many times when men send money to their non existing female admires. So, as an advice, never hand over money or personal details such as home address or bank account to someone who you never actually met. 

Also never forget that online dating has many advantages and these dating scams shouldn't stop you to try online dating anymore, especially now that you know how to handle the situation.

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Are Online Dating Tests Reliable ? - 0139

Nowadays, more and more people are finding online dating a remarkable way of gaining new friends, companions, or love mates. As it grows at breakneck speed, the online dating industry has devised a new way of services for their members and even non-members. Many online dating sites are offering the so-called online dating tests.

Most of these online dating tests are about personality and compatibility. They range from the simple to most complex questions but all are designed to give people the results that might help them on their online dates. However, even if it gained tremendous popularity, many experts contend that online dating tests are not that reliable. In fact, many psychologists contend that the reliability and efficiency of online dating tests is less than 50%. This means that, when the results of an online dating test concerning compatibility state that the person who tried the test and the person being paired say they are compatible, chances are, only half of it is true. Why Were They Created?

Because of the unprecedented growth of online dating and the increasing demand for matchmaking, most of the online dating industry has come up with the concept of online dating tests in order to help with a better match. Hence, different online dating tests have emerged like personality tests and compatibility tests.  Psychologists have asserted that when a person tried to access online dating tests and answered some questions, chances are, his or her answers will be affected by many outside factors such as feelings, attitude, mood, and context. This means that there are possibilities wherein a person may have two different answers on one given question if it will be asked on two different situations.

For example, if an individual is feeling low or is “heartbroken” by the time he or she tried to answer an online dating test and answered them again on a different mood, chances are, the results may vary. Some psychologists explain that the reason for these discrepancies is that the Internet-based online dating test are only through self-evaluation and are not guided by reliable psychological assessment, which usually are done in clinical conditions.

Therefore, for people who are fond of answering online dating tests, there’s no problem on that. The problem arises if it will be the basis of something serious like marriage. Boiled down, these tests can be amusing but it should never be used by people in making decisions about love and relationship.

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